Romance After Divorce?
Life is all about our ability, and desire, to continue progressing as we overcome the natural obstacles life presents. Earthlife is a graduate school, of sorts, and the course-work isn't intended to be easy!
Divorce is one of the most challenging graduate courses out there and moving forward after experiencing divorce is critical.
But moving forward into a new romantic relationship may not necessarily be the direction you will want to go when we are newly divorced.
It's my oberservation that it takes a minimum of two years before sufficient time has passed, allowing the dust to settle in our life, to enable us to begin thinking objectively enough to make good decisions regarding a new romantic relationship.
The good news is that there is so much else to focused on, adjust to, and learn to manage as a result of all the changes in our life---who wants to deal with a love interest, anyway?
If divorce can feel like an amputation, we need time for the wound to heal!
